so you dated the wrong person and learned a hard lesson. you chose the wrong major and had to start over again. you cherished a friend who backstabbed you. it sucks, but it’s also going to work out. that’s life; you learn, hurt, love, cry, laugh, and keep going. you experience setbacks and you grow and it’s all okay.
Well it’s bulls and blood It’s dust and mud It’s the roar of a Sunday crowd It’s the white in his knuckles The gold in the buckle He’ll win the next go ‘round It’s boots and chaps It’s cowboy hats It’s spurs and latigo It’s the ropes and the reins And the joy and the pain And they call the thing rodeo It’ll drive a cowboy crazy It’ll drive the man insane And he’ll sell off everything he owns Just to pay to play her game And a broken home and some broken bones Is all he’ll have to show For all the years that he spent chasin’ This dream they call rodeo
here’s a tip: if you start dating a depressed person, don’t be surprised if they are still depressed while they are dating you. they’re not depressed because they’re single, and you are not an all-powerful cure for mental illnesses. just be there for them.
since the day I heard an older man say “relationships thrive when you are always trying to out-serve each other” I have never, ever forgotten it.
relationships thrive when you are always trying to love the other person more than they love you. in every way.
it’s so selfless.
and it’s safe to be as selfless as possible because you know they are doing the same and there’s no doubt that you’ve got each other.
Optica is a clean and simple theme with tons of customizations. It sounds impossible, but it’s true. Layouts, colors, fonts: Everything is up for grabs. Optica can transform into anything you want—as long as what you want is a blog.
Overview
Clean, versatile theme for any kind of media
Grid or column layout
Customizable colors, fonts, links, and all that other good stuff
Documentation
Header Image
If your avatar is a picture of your face, your header image is what you see when you close your eyes. It should say, “yeah, this is who I am.” Or at least what your blog’s about. If you don’t like the way the header image looks on your blog, you can play with the “sliding header” and “stretch header image” settings or turn it off altogether.
Avatar
Since your avatar is the most familiar part of your Tumblr appearance, we thought it’d be nice to include it on your blog. But if you don’t like it, that’s cool too. You can hide it from your blog settings and it’ll only be used on the Dashboard.
Blog title design
There’s something like 12 trillion different combinations of fonts and colors. Play around until you land on one that’s all yours.
Background and accent colors
There are no wrong colors.
Disqus shortname
Built in. Easy and fun!
Google Analytics
No code tweaks. Just plug in your Analytics ID and you’re off to the races.
